The Fragrant Touch of Courtesy, August 18
            
            
              Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another,
            
            
              love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous.
            
            
              1 Peter 3:8
            
            
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              In dealing with our fellow men we all are to consider that they are of
            
            
              like passions with ourselves, feeling the same weaknesses and suffering
            
            
              the same temptations. They, with us, have a struggle with life if they
            
            
              maintain their integrity.... True Christian courtesy unites and perfects both
            
            
              justice and politeness, and mercy and love make up the filling, giving the
            
            
              finest touches and most graceful charms to the character....
            
            
              Abraham was a true gentleman. In his life we have the finest example
            
            
              of the power of true courtesy. Look at his course with Lot.... How
            
            
              courteously he welcomes the travelers, the messengers of God, to his
            
            
              tent, and entertains them! He bowed before the sons of Heth when he
            
            
              purchased of them a cave in which to bury his beloved Sarah.... Well did
            
            
              Abraham know what was due from man to his fellow man.
            
            
              Paul, though firm as a rock to principle, yet ever preserved his courtesy.
            
            
              He was zealous for the vital points and was not regardless of the grace
            
            
              and politeness due to social life. The man of God did not absorb the man
            
            
              of humanity.
            
            
              But we present a greater than Abraham and Paul—the Saviour of
            
            
              the world. His life was a striking illustration of genuine courtesy. It
            
            
              is impossible to enumerate the instances of His kindness, courtesy, and
            
            
              tender sympathy and love. What rays of softness and beauty did His
            
            
              marvelous condescension shed over His entire life! He had a kind look
            
            
              and an encouraging word for all who were wearied and worn with labor.
            
            
              He was ready to help the most helpless.
            
            
              Love, courtesy, amiability—these are never lost. When men shall be
            
            
              changed from mortal to immortal, all the deeds of sanctified goodness
            
            
              done by them will be made manifest. These deeds will be preserved
            
            
              through the eternal ages. Not one, however small or simple, is ever lost.
            
            
              Through the merits of Christ’s imputed righteousness they preserve their
            
            
              fragrance.
            
            
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